Jesseca and Me
About a year and a half ago, I had the good fortune to start seeing a wonderful woman named Jesseca Camacho, a friend I had known for several years. When we started dating we discovered we had a considerable amount in common and both felt that Spirit very clearly had brought us together. We regularly checked in with various divination tools and some highly intuitive friends, and continually got the clear message that we were meant to be together. Truth is, it was soon after we started dating that I found my love and appreciation for her deepening. She’s my spiritual counterpart in many ways, and I found myself drawing closer to her rather quickly.
Amidst the intensities related to finalizing everything with my divorce, Jesseca became my girlfriend and eventually my Personal Assistant. We broke up a couple times—regarding some personal matters—but reunited with a clearer understanding of what we expected from each other and have continued on since. We faced some difficult challenges along the way and in the process learned some powerful lessons. I’m happy to say we’ve managed to successfully navigate through them. I even named January 11th of this year, my actual birthday, as my Rebirth day. It felt that several cycles of my life were completed right around that time, and I felt a welcome sense of relief and renewal at how this new life was emerging.
Jesseca and I moved in together just before Christmas. It took awhile to adjust to that, but we moved through some of the early issues very fluidly. She started working for me as my assistant once again as well. She has a wealth of administrative experience and is a natural to help with my work and my business. In addition, she’s a gifted intuitive with a very gentle yet direct approach with her clients and also an excellent writer. You may have seen some of her columns in Awakenings magazine, distributed locally here in Southern California, for which she is also the publisher and editor. Her articles are very personal, insightful, and easy-to-read, which is the mark of an exceptional writer. She also has two delightful children, Serena and Ari that I have become quite attached to.
So a couple of months ago I proposed to her and she said yes. I even had planned to say, “Take your time, take a day, a week, a month. Just let me know when you’re ready.” But before I got the words out of my mouth she said, “Yes!” Phew! We’re to be wed in June of this year. I absolutely love and adore her, and am totally committed to her and our partnership. We have helped one another heal at a very deep soul level, and now we’re continuing to support each other in being the best human beings we can be. Since a relationship cannot exist without a community, we’re fortunate that many of our friends and family have given their blessings and support to our relationship.
Our getting together is yet one example of how the Creator is shaping and forming who we should be with and what each of us need to shed into order to come into alignment with Spirit. And we always have a choice in that. Perhaps the choice is simply whether to heed the messages we get, or ignore or deny them and take a chance on our own, pretending that we can somehow be out of God’s present and loving eyes.
Anyway, that’s a little bit about Jesseca and me. I’m sure you’ll get to know her better, as we’re now a big part of each other’s story. I am so grateful for all the healing that took place throughout 2009, and grateful to all who have supported this transition with their love and prayers.
To Jesseca: “Ti amo eterno la mia bella signora!”